I don’t hate my Competition, I thank them! (5)

Actually, I owe them a thank-you card. Maybe even a fruit basket. Because while some people lose sleep over competitors, I might actually give them a spot ( small one!) in my dreams, knowing they’re helping me grow.

We’ve been conditioned to view competition as war. Business books often sound like military manuals. But the truth is, I don’t see competitors as enemies. They’re more like frenemies. The kind that push you in public and high-five you in private. Think Tom and Jerry. They chase, scheme, and occasionally blow each other up… but deep down, what would Tom even be without Jerry?

Or better yet, think Sherlock Holmes and Moriarty. Whether you’ve seen the BBC version, the movies, or any of the reboots, the message is there. Moriarty isn’t just a villain. He’s the spark that ignites Sherlock’s brilliance. Without that rivalry, Sherlock might be just another smart guy solving crossword puzzles in his robe. Instead, he’s forced to stretch, question, and evolve. Because greatness doesn’t grow in a vacuum. It grows in friction.

I’ve had competitors copy my content, imitate my slides, echo my frameworks, and even lift phrases I made up in the shower. But honestly, I feel oddly flattered. Because if I was forgettable, they wouldn’t bother.

And let’s not pretend we don’t learn from them too. I’ve picked up ideas from competitors’ posts, events, and even their mistakes (those are gold!). It’s like we’re all in one giant workshop, unknowingly co-authoring each other’s success stories.

In real life, my Moriartys have taught me resilience, strategy, and how to respond with grace when provoked. They remind me of the “I” in Intentonomics®. Not intimidation, but integrity of thought.

So here’s what I’ve learned. You don’t have to like your competition, but you don’t have to hate them either. You can coexist, learn, laugh, and even grow together. Awkward smiles and all. Frenemies aren’t a flaw in the system. They’re the spark in the engine.

Next time you see your competitor winning, don’t rage-scroll. Smile, reflect, and say, “Game on.”

Because if you’re not inspired by your competition, you’re probably not paying attention.